We got to talk to Jon today on the webcam!
Both Lucy and I were so excited. It was fun getting to see him and hear his voice. Lucy talked most of the call and even though we had a hard time understanding what she was saying, I know Jon liked hearing her voice and giggles. When it was time to say goodbye, she said it quickly, but as soon as Jon was off the screen she turned around to look at me and asked for Daddy again. It broke my heart as I promised her we would see him again soon and the tears filled her eyes.
One of my favorite things to do with Lucy at the end of the day is cuddle in bed talking about what kind of day she had. We go over everything from what she had for breakfast to what toys she played with in the tub. Today when I asked her about her favorite part of the day, I expected her to answer "Park Jay" (which translates to playing at the park with her friend Jayden), but she surprised me and quickly answered "DADA!" Then we talked about how fun it was to see him and how he played "kissy monster" with her. It was the best moment of my day too...
Technology is such an awesome thing. Sometimes I take for granted how fortunate I am to be able to see people on the computer at any time. It makes me feel like I'm closer to family then I really am. I've watched my nephew grow and our parents have been able to watch our little girl grow (and our bulldog of course!). It helps Lucy understand who everyone is too. Instead of just pointing at pictures and telling her who everyone is, she can see and interact with them. Since Lucy was old enough to talk, she would hear the chime of the computer getting email or someone sending a message and she says "Nana, Papa, email?" I'm sure "Dada?" will be added to that shortly.
I'm hoping that having this technology will help us feel less separated during Jon's deployment. While its not the same as having him here, it sure is nice to be able to see and hear him at the same time.
The technology today is a god-sent for mom and I. Although it's always nicer to be face to face the web-cam and telephone is the next best thing--best investment we've made in along time. I always remember the story Grandma M. told about Grandpa leaving for WWII. She had no idea where he was going or when he'd be back. She did receive a letter sometime later but still had no idea where he was. Hand written letters was the only way they could communicate--no web-cam or E-mail for them. He was gone for almost 2yrs. and didn't see his first child until he was 1yr old. Thank God he did return safely! I always remember that story when I hear of our troops and deployments. I guess we should consider ourselves fortunate to have all this modern technology. I'm really glad the highlight of Lucy's day was talking to her Daddy. I'm sure you'll both get through this deployment with flying colors.
ReplyDeleteI never knew that about Grandpa. I can't even imagine what that must have been like for Grams. Especially since today's war is so much different. Not knowing whether your husband is ok for weeks on end would be extremely difficult.
ReplyDeleteAnd I'm glad Grandpa made it back too! If he didn't you and I wouldn't be here! :)